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Created on 2010-09-10 12:53:07 (#619860), last updated 2014-01-01 (168 weeks ago)

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Birthdate:Jul 3
Website:my icon community
If you ever want to send me any vgifts, please only send the free ones or the charity ones. NO regular vgifts, thank you! :)

My icon community is exclu_silly, so there's no need to friend my personal lj if you're only looking for icons. :)

I also run two icontests: you_choose_ic and nextpicture, and I'm a mod at womenverse.

The list of my favorite fandoms, characters and relationships is HERE.

the Snow to my Ruby / the Alice to my Shane / the Katee to my Tricia (and the other way round)
the Kara to my Arya
the Ana Lucia to my Sawyer
the Claire to my Hurley
the Jacob to my Locke
the Xander to my Dawn
the Willow to my Dawn
the Kaylee to my Mal
the Jodi to my Shane

"Queerness, to me, is about far more than homosexual attraction. It’s about a willingness to see all other taboos broken down. Sure, many of us start on this path when we first feel “same sex” or “same gender” attraction (though what is sex? And what is gender? And does anyone really have the same sex or gender as anyone else?). But queerness doesn’t stop there.

This is a somewhat controversial stance, but to me queer means something completely different than “gay” or “lesbian” or “bisexual.” A queer person is usually someone who has come to a non-binary view of gender, who recognizes the validity of all trans identities, and who, given this understanding of infinite gender possibilities, finds it hard to define their sexuality any longer in a gender-based way. Queer people understand and support non-monogamy even if they do not engage in it themselves. They can grok being asexual or aromantic. (What does sex have to do with love, or love with sex, necessarily?) A queer can view promiscuous (protected) public bathhouse sex with strangers and complete abstinence as equally healthy.

Queers understand that people have different relationships to their bodies. We get what it means to be stone. We know what body dysphoria is about. We understand that not everyone likes to get touched the same way or to get touched at all. We realize that people with disabilities may have different sexual needs, and that people with survivor histories often have sexual triggers.

We embrace a wide range of relationship types. We can be partners, lovers, friends with benefits, platonic sweethearts, chosen family. We can have very different dynamics with different people, often all at once. We don’t expect one person to be able to fulfill all our diverse needs, fantasies and ideals indefinitely.

Because our views on relationships, sex, gender, love, bodies, and family are so unconventional, we are of necessity anti-assimilationist. Because under the kyriarchy we suffer, and watch the people we love suffering, we are political. Because we want to survive, we fight. We only want the freedom to be ourselves, love ourselves, love each other, and live together. Because we are routinely denied that, we are pissed."



I mod womenverse.

I'm on:

TEAM SUBTEXT at femslashverse (old name: femslash_land)

TEAM AIR at universe_the

TEAM BUNNY EARS at tv_universe

TEAM WITNESSES at sleepyhollowlnd


TEAM BUFFY at whedonland/wlreunion

TEAM GALACTICA at twelvecolonies

TEAM DRAMA LLAMAS at [community profile] thefandomzoo (dreamwidth)

TEAM FOURTH WALL at tvholics

TEAM BIRDS OF PREY at [community profile] theaviary (dreamwidth)

TEAM SEAHORSE at the_deepbluesea


TEAM OTHERS at lost_land


TEAM PHOENIX at fantasyverse

TEAM ANTI-HERO at scifiland

TEAM SQUID at ohanythinggoes

TEAM OCEANIC at jjverse

TEAM DRAMA at fandomverse

TEAM SCI FI at tvdramaland

(I used to be on TEAM FAMILY at tvdramaland, behold the shiny sig tags :D)

+ landcomms that are not closed, but I left them:

TEAM POP ART at landofart


TEAM SWAN at onceuponaland

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